INFLUENCE PERSON IN MY LIFE
Influence is the natural power of every people. Sometimes we have influenced somebody unconsciously or consciously because of our
words, behavior, and attitude. In the society, we are not able to escape from
the influence power of others, and normally, a transformation will be revealed on us after we have been influenced. This is our relationship. During my lifetime, there are many
people who have influenced me. However, there is an important person who makes
the most influence in my life—my beloved mother. My mother is a traditional
Chinese woman who loves her children wholeheartedly and patiently. She is not
only my mother but also the guide of my path, the path of my life.
My mother has demonstrated me what the appropriate
behavior and attitude are. When I was a child, she told me a hundred of thousand
of stories and her life experience. Love, honest, and respect are the most essential
characteristics of her stories. Virtually, she also gave me a genuine example
which is herself. She always treats and helps everyone with a pure heart, including
her friends, family, and stranger. For example, when there was somebody who needed
help on the street, she would give him/her a hand immediately without any reserve. She
loves communicating with different people with honest and tender smile; therefore, she has many real, close friends. Because of her excellent image, I have been influenced gradually and always act in
her way. I also love meeting and talking to friends with smile and honest. Although there is somebody who betray or hurt me, I will forgive him with tolerance
because I believe that love is the solution of relationship. All of my mother’s
words, stories, and behavior are always kept deeply in my mind.
Education is not only available in school but
also in family. My mother is my life’s teacher. She always utilizes some tools of natural and some books to educate me.
When I was young, she loved to bring me to many places; for example, countryside, battlefield of the past, traveling
spot, and so on. Then, she would tell me the background and history of the place
with many details, and I would ask her a lot of questions. In addition, my home
is liked a little library which has many books inside, but most of them are belonged to my mother. She loves reading and learning. My mother seems as if a brilliant,
marvelous book which you can view and know about the whole world from. Although
I am still a little book which possesses only a few of knowledge, I am eager to learn more about everything. I love reading and learning. My mother made me understand
that knowledge is the power or a gem which we all need to seek for without stopping and resting, and learning is the key of
absorbing knowledge. I am glad that I have an opportunity of learning which is
provided by my beloved mother.
Although my mother always educates me as an honest
person, sometimes she would teach me with tactics and punishment strictly—if I did something wrong and evil. Actually,
I always did something which irritated my mother. For example, I was always tempted
by TV program, especially cartoon, when I was supposed to finish my homework or to study.
Then, my mother would not talk to me in the whole day and ignored me with a cool face after I finished watching TV. Virtually, this tactics is really effective to a child. After I apologized with a crying face, she would blame and rebuke me with a high acoustic wave. She forced me to learn from my fault, and I really did. Also,
when I did fighting with other children or treated people in an impolite way, my mother would ask me the reason and give me
some positive advice—of cause, with blaming. I remembered that she did
not give me any money in the whole month after I did fighting, and this is an extremely horrible punishment to me. All the punishment and advice of my mother taught me about right and wrong, and I did understand that I
need to change my mind and to be a better person as my mother advised me.
mother has influenced me deeply on my way of thinking, behavior, and attitude. In
my view, she is a legend. I am proud of being her child because I have learned
so much from her. Those enormous influences of her and all of her lessons are
her gift for me, and I will always cherish them in my heart until I die. Thank